'Waiting to be chosen' is one of the most common and most disabling problems we face.
The popular myth of getting recognised for your talent and swooped up into your dream scenario is just that, a myth.
The people who appear to have benefited from this kind of luck chose themselves long before someone else chose them. They showed up, put themselves out there and did the work to get to where they wanted to go. Over and over.
They cast continuous votes for the kind of person they wanted to be through repeated actions. They kept choosing to put themselves out there over and over and make things happen.
Choose where you want to go and start deliberately moving toward it. Some things will work, some won't. The average of your actions will propel you toward your destination if you keep choosing yourself and showing up to do the work.